Despite her recent divorce filing, Jennifer Lopez has maintained a strong relationship with Ben Affleck’s three children, showing continued support and involvement in their lives. The singer and actress has been a part of their lives since her marriage to Affleck and, according to sources, remains devoted to their well-being, staying in touch even after her split from the actor.
Lopez’s Bond with Affleck’s Children
Jennifer Lopez’s bond with Ben Affleck’s children—Violet, 18, Fin, 15, and Samuel, 12—remains a priority. As reported on November 6, a source close to Lopez revealed, “Her family adores Ben’s kids. J.Lo wants them to know they can reach out to her if they need anything.” Over the past few months, Lopez has continued to see the children and keep them close, which reflects her commitment to nurturing these relationships despite the recent changes in her personal life.
In September, Lopez and Affleck took the children out for a lunch outing, showing a unified front for their blended family. Additionally, Lopez has encouraged her own 16-year-old daughter, Emme, to build friendships with Affleck’s kids, even taking Emme to Jennifer Garner’s house for the children to spend time together.
J.Lo’s Family and Their Support for Affleck’s Children
Lopez’s family has also shown support for the bond with Affleck’s children. Lopez’s sister, journalist Lynda Lopez, recently visited Violet Affleck at Yale University, where Violet is currently a student. Lynda shared a selfie with Violet on Instagram, captioning it, “In New Haven with my favorite Yale student,” signaling her close relationship with the young adult. This gesture reportedly surprised both Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner, who expressed appreciation for Lynda’s support of their eldest daughter’s college journey.
Lopez’s Perspective on Divorce and Moving Forward
Jennifer Lopez has been open about the emotional journey she has experienced in the aftermath of her marriage breakdown. In an October interview with Interview magazine, Lopez shared the challenges she faced during her separation from Affleck. She described feeling “lonely, strange, scared, sad, and hopeless,” but also emphasized the resilience she found in herself. “When I was overwhelmed by those emotions and told myself that these things could not kill me, that’s when I realized I had the ability to find joy and happiness on my own,” Lopez explained. This outlook reflects her dedication to moving forward and finding inner strength, a theme that resonates with her fans and underscores her determination to prioritize her happiness and family relationships.
Affleck’s Quiet Support and Praise
While Ben Affleck has largely kept quiet about the divorce, he recently expressed admiration for Lopez’s work in the film Unstoppable, which he co-produced with his longtime friend, actor Matt Damon. At the film’s premiere, Affleck complimented Lopez’s performance, a sentiment that did not go unnoticed by Lopez herself. When asked about his praise, Lopez responded graciously, “The entire cast and crew that made the film are so talented and amazing.”
A Positive Outlook on Family Dynamics
Jennifer Lopez’s commitment to maintaining her bond with Affleck’s children, coupled with her appreciation for her own family’s support, paints a picture of a strong and resilient woman who values her connections. Her willingness to keep Affleck’s children close even after the separation speaks to her character and her dedication to being a positive influence in their lives. The support she receives from her own family, including her sister Lynda’s efforts, further reinforces the importance of family connections, even amidst personal struggles.
As Lopez continues to focus on her career and personal growth, her ongoing relationship with Affleck’s children serves as a testament to the enduring ties that she has built and sustained.
