Tulisa, the N-Dubz singer and former X Factor judge, has revealed she identifies as demisexual during a heartfelt discussion on ITV’s I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here! The star opened up about her personal experiences with celibacy, emotional connections, and her guarded approach to dating, sparking a wave of discussion among fans and viewers.
Tulisa’s Take on Demisexuality and Celibacy
During a conversation with her campmates, Tulisa shared her journey with dating and celibacy, explaining that she has largely avoided dating apps like Raya, a platform for high-profile individuals.
“Even though I’ve been on there, I’ve never gone on an actual date with anyone on there,” Tulisa said. “I’m proper guarded.”
She went on to explain her demisexuality:
“I feel like I’m demisexual. I need to have a really close emotional bond with someone … I need actual depth. I’m a slow, slow burner. I’ve been celibate for over three years.”
Demisexuality is a term that falls within the spectrum of asexuality, describing individuals who only experience sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional connection.
The Origins of the Term ‘Demisexual’
Although the term “demisexual” was coined in 2006 on a web forum focused on asexuality, it remains a relatively lesser-known identity. According to the 2021 British census, only 0.06% of respondents in the UK identified as asexual, highlighting the rarity of such orientations in public discourse.
Tulisa’s Views on Emotional Connections
When asked by campmate Dean McCullough, a radio DJ, about her choice to remain celibate, Tulisa responded:
“I’m not an overly sexualised person. For me, it’s all about the connection and the emotions that I feel with someone and then wanting to express them in that way.”
She added that the idea of being intimate with someone she doesn’t have an emotional bond with makes her feel “physically sick.” Her humorous but assertive declaration:
“This is my temple, you cannot enter!”
Campmate Reactions and Humorous Moments
The discussion lightened up when Coronation Street actor Alan Halsall joked:
“It sounds like a Bushtucker Trial where you’ve gotta find a key to Tulisa’s temple!”
The interaction showcased Tulisa’s ability to engage deeply yet maintain a sense of humor amidst the jungle dynamics.
Tulisa’s Journey on I’m a Celeb
While Tulisa is not currently a frontrunner for victory, with bookmakers favoring campmates like McFly’s Danny Jones, her candid discussions have endeared her to viewers. Fans have praised her openness, which has brought a fresh perspective to the show.
