In 2017, Selena Gomez and The Weeknd (Abel Tesfaye) surprised fans when they went public with their romance. Their relationship quickly became a sensation, as the two seemed to connect deeply, sharing similar experiences as artists navigating fame. Their relationship was marked by sweet, candid moments, often captured on social media and in public appearances, including red carpet events like the Met Gala. Fans saw this relationship as a fresh start for Gomez, who appeared to be moving forward after her time with Justin Bieber.
Their romance was intense but short-lived, lasting only about ten months. During that time, they appeared incredibly supportive of one another, with The Weeknd even making sacrifices in his tour schedule to be by Gomez’s side when she needed a kidney transplant in mid-2017. The support they showed each other in challenging times was a testament to the strong bond they shared, even if it didn’t last. Many fans saw this as a more mature, nurturing relationship, allowing Gomez to rediscover her independence and personal happiness.
Despite the breakup, which they both handled gracefully, neither harbored ill will. In fact, Gomez spoke warmly about The Weeknd in interviews following their split, calling him a “best friend” who made a positive impact on her life. The Weeknd, on the other hand, is thought to have channeled some of his feelings into his music. Tracks on his album “My Dear Melancholy” are speculated to reflect the emotions he experienced post-breakup, providing fans with a glimpse into his side of the story.
For Gomez, this relationship was a stepping stone toward self-love and emotional growth. The time she spent with The Weeknd taught her about healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of finding someone who respects her individuality. This romance may have been brief, but it showed a side of Gomez that resonated with fans—strong, vulnerable, and open to new experiences. As she continues to share her journey through her music and advocacy work, Gomez remains an inspiring figure for those navigating their own paths in love and life.
